............Why the children behave badly? Is it because of their parents, school, friends or themselves? We don’t know. When the children did something wrong, many adult always ask for someone to take care of that problem because children is a minor that cannot take care of themselves and must be under protection of their parents. If we ask for someone to respond to that badly behavior, is it should be their parents? I don’t think so.
............Some may say that parents should be fully responding for their children behavior because they are the one who give birth and raise them. Parents should be the first person who teach their children, what is good or bad, how to behave or give them the guide to live in the world. So, if their children do something wrong, not only children should be punish but also their parents. Is it true? When the children grow up, do they go to school? Do they meet new friends? Do they live in the new environment that parents can’t be with? Especially friends, Dr.Remi Quirion, the director of Canadian Institutes of Health Research (CIHR), who research about a teenager getting drunk, said that the force condition from friend is the huge key that led the children to be drink more than family background. This has showed that not only parents who affect a child any more. Even though, parents teach and take care of their child well at home or when they together, but when the children are out side, parents don’t even know who is their child will be with or what are they doing with their friends. So, if parents have to be punish for their children bad behavior, school, teachers, friends etc should be punish as equal as parents too because they all affect children and made them become who they are.
............Parents are a person who has to teach their children to be a good man and do everything to protect their child from harm. If the children disobedient their parents, who knows? They pretend to be good little child in front of their mommy and daddy but after walk out of the house’s door, they turn to be somebody else that you don’t even know like smoke with friends which they didn’t do it in a house, drive really fast without a driver’ license that you never give permission. Such as the big news in Thailand that a youth drive a car and it cause an accident which 8 people die. Her parents said that her friend, who is an adult, picked her up at home and promises to take her home safely. The story didn’t turn out to be like that. The girl’s friend let her borrow his car and it caused a huge accident. Is this her parents’ fault? How can parents take care of their child when they were away? They can only give the good thing, teach the right thing and guide them so they can think by themselves. If the children behave badly by themselves, they should accept the punishment with themselves too.
............I strong believe that all parents in this world want their child grow up to be happy and be good person but children are not robot that you can program what ever you like. If parents do their best to raise their little kid, give them the entire good thing, pay attention to them and give them love all they need but the children choose to step into the bad side, who’s to blame.
............For parent, the worse penalty that they get from their children behave badly is to know that their little kid that they raise did something wrong and have to be punish by social or law. To know that their child have to face the pain of being guilty is the worst punish that parent will get. They have to suffer the great pain from their beloved little child, not from social or law.
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